ASSESSING IF YOU SHOULD STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP
Here are a couple of important points to consider:
If there is a deep connection between the two of you; if you feel you have important things in common; if the person makes you smile on the inside more than anybody you know; if you love them the best and only in the world and you feel they also love you the same way, then these are signs to stay in the relationship.
If this same person can also piss you off and hurt you more than anybody you know, you might wonder if it’s a sign not to stay in the relationship… What to do?
Remember this: Love is the digesting agent for the hardest personal growth lessons and these generally occur within a relationship. Love speeds up learning and makes the learning worthwhile.
The best and right relationships can be those where the love and the difficulty of the lessons seem as strong as each other.
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